you're right heidi... its time to blog again.

i usually only get to blogging when i am frustrated, sad or need to vent. i think i am all those things at the moment.

people just frustrate the living hell outta me.

pet peeves:

when people don't take action or fear a confrontation.

if you believe in something you should really fight for it, especially if you have every right. there is a way to respectfully, but with conviction get your point across especially if you have confidence.

when people don't follow simple instructions.

if you give a specific written request to, i dont know... your lawyer for example, shouldnt that lawyer follow your request? they do work for you, right? and, its a real shame when directions arent followed over, and over, and over again. i mean, really though?

when people are assholes within a family dynamic.

if you really love a sibling (for arguments sake) maybe the best thing to do is try and put their feelings ahead of your own... or at least, consider them. the whole world doesnt revolve around your one point of view. even i know that much. and, if someone is judgmental to not 1 family member, or even 2, but nearly every single one... then whos the one with the issue?

i think some people just lack common sense and have a blatant disregard for anyone else. its not that they intend on hurting anyone, they just do what is safe and what feels best to them. my goal for 2012: focus every day on how i may be making someone else feel with my actions or words.

good goal, kids. good goal.